*Monday, May 29, 2006*

The Five Love Languages

My primary love languages are probably
Physical Touch and Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch: 8
Quality Time: 8
Words of Affirmation: 8
Acts of Service: 4
Receiving Gifts: 2


Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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ling long picked a waterdrop @ 1:38 am


Your dating personality profile:

Athletic - Physical fitness is one of your priorities. You find the time to work athletic pursuits into your schedule. You enjoy being active.
Big-Hearted - You are a kind and caring person. Your warmth is inviting, and your heart is a wellspring of love.
Religious - Faith matters to you. It is the foundation that you build your life upon. You trust that God has a plan for you.		Your date match profile:

Religious - You seek someone who is grounded in faith and who possesses religious values. You believe that a religious person can enhance your life.
Big-Hearted - You want someone compassionate, someone gentle and kind. A loving, nurturing person will fill that hole in your life.
Athletic - You aren't looking for a couch potato. You seek someone who is active and who keeps his body in top shape.
Your Top Ten Traits

1. Athletic
2. Big-Hearted
3. Religious
4. Liberal
5. Traditional
6. Wealthy/Ambitious
7. Adventurous
8. Romantic
9. Outgoing
10. Sensual
Your Top Ten Match Traits

1. Religious
2. Big-Hearted
3. Athletic
4. Traditional
5. Practical
6. Adventurous
7. Conservative
8. Outgoing
9. Romantic
10. Stylish

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ling long picked a waterdrop @ 1:37 am


i once felt a passion to do it... then stopped... then now its on offer... a chance.. but excuses come my way...

exams... travelling alone.. who am i wif...

but then.. another voice comes in... what haf u gotta loose, isnt this what i want?

just go for it... no regrets....

maybe tts what i will do... to press on.. push forward...

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 1:22 am

*Monday, May 22, 2006*

its been a long week... wif bad moods, horrible results, fears, bad news... to come to church and translate....

to fear not being good enuff... for being not whole enuff.. for Him to work me in and out..

positioning myself for God to work... how wld i do tt? went for altar call... and these words... these words tt i needed to hear for the past mth... its time to bury tt coffin and hammer the last nail in.... God... how long haf i waited to hear those words...

to see tt passion ignite once again... to go down... to humble myself in front of Him... to burn for my passion like i've neva burned b4... i feel like its coming true...

met Sue Lynn for lunch today.... heard some news.. and its sinking in... no preparation process.... another email... short course is starting... shld i or shld i not? the advice... u cant study 2 days b4 exams... u shld be studying weeks b4... mayb i shld accept... shld i?

throat feels weird... i hope its onli psychological... im soooo not going to get sick in His mighty name, Amen!!!!!!!

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 1:04 am


to update wat happened on wed....

last combined ul.... we had awesome worship.. led by Victor and Scott... who played the guitar at eelin's place... haha.. cant believe we had a diff venue...

lots of ppl needed breakthroughs i believed. in worship. in their lives... amazing how sanne called 1 hr b4 ul.. and decided to go thru wif me wat she wanted to share... so in line wif mine.. tt i had to request tt she was b4 me... and God let all our testimonies almost turn out to be along da same lines... frm Josh's to SueLynn's, to Jane's, to shauna's, to Scott's to Sanne's and finally mine... sanne had her longest speech ever and im super proud of her... gave a toast to scott, josh, suelynn, and eelin.. for all their love, prayers and everything they've thought us.... Thank God for each of them...

b4 i cld move on to moi offering... Scott washed our feet... including eelin's and we were left speechless... tears in some ppl's eyes.... it was really significant and yes... thank God... Jesus did it too...

offering was a challenge... and thank God... tt the testimonies i had in mine came in da correct sequence.. and an amazing offering was taken up... haha....

most gurls left sleepless tt nite... not being able to sleep till after 3 in da morning.. hence da numerous eye bags ard.. haha... oh well.. wat a big bang.... to end

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 12:58 am

*Monday, May 15, 2006*

wat a breather.. what a relief.... to start last mon night wif a huge cry!!!

everything pouring out... during the week.. of how inportant it was to let go... move on ... and look forward

to have beautiful woman sum it all up....

Pstr Sam spoke... on how to move forward, to put down hurts and pains, to put aside loss.. to not stop halfway... but persevere onward... all da way to our promise land, our callings...

how to look out for signs... tt the 'one' He has choosen for us is present... and how to accept, or even listen to the prompts of the Holy Spirit inside of us

Pstr Danny spoke... on how women watch their dreams die in front of them due to personal barriers.... but how God would revive any of those visions, if they were for us, planned by Him...

How amazing... each session spoke to me... how wonderful.. God is in ur lives... neva cried somuch in 1 service.. think heaps felt different after this event.... beautiful again

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 6:45 pm

*Wednesday, May 10, 2006*

read one of my 1st few posts in may last year... and realised... tt ihad a list of 10 things i wanted...

exactly 1 yr later... i read the same list.. and realised.... most of tt 10 things have been answered...

what seemed like just an expression of an impulse... somehow became reality... the expression of a passion...

much has happened... through these few years i've come to notice... how hard life was... but to know tt i've done so much... and can do much much more... is such a fulfilling thought...

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 9:55 pm

*Tuesday, May 09, 2006*

read my dear gurl's blog today... and welll... her entry reminded me of sumthing...

something tt didnt seem so impt... but come to think abt it... was worth it...

how long has it been since i last spent time wif some1 who loved me so dearly?
as my all-so-respected ul leader mentioned last night... it is time for me to face reality, to grow up... into adulthood... some things i thought i had overcomed... i neva really got rid of it... come to think abt it... mayb it wasnt at all serious... but if its a barrier b/w God and i... then its something.. something impt... something serious afterall...

didnt go for class today.... and yea.. spent time at home.. doing what i normally do... till i read sanne's blog... and... well... He's calling... so... i know what i gotta do...

no matter how long it is... this may be my 1st step.... 1st step into reality... 1st step into leaving my teenage years behind, 1st step into my passion, His calling, my life...

mayb He's really bringing to da surface things tt need to be cleared... its not gonna be easy... i know it.. but its abt time... time i put my trust in Him... all of me...

mayb its a declaration, a proclaimation... but its gonna be my motivation...

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 2:51 pm

*Saturday, May 06, 2006*

a lot of expectations come my way... responsibilities... barriers.... breakthroughs.... the good and bad i've gotta experience...

true.. as John Bevere asked.... how many have felt tt the past 3 years have been one of the most difficult times we've experienced.... i didnt admit it... but now.. reflecting back.. the past 6 yrs have been difficult... since the day we stepped into church... since the day he left.... since the day i was pulled out frm my dreamland... since the day i stepped into foreign melbourne... since the day i left my comfort zone... since the day i prayed for a church.... so much more to say...

but God has shown me soooo much more... the ppl im surrounded with, the older ones who've experienced more than i have, the mentors tt He's provided... the guidence, the encouragement... its all tt i've not asked for, all tt i've not expected... all i did was to pray for a church.. and He's blessed me with so much more.

isnt it time to put aside my fears, isnt it time to rise up... to break through tt wall i put up... the security tt i lack.. isnt it time to put my complete trust in a God... who's more than tt... He's closer than being just tt God... He more than juz tt friend... i know who He wants to become in my life... but i've not given Him tt chance... and i know im missing out... but i know... one day... He'll be who He wants to be in my life... My God, My Friend, My Father, My Everything!!!!!

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 1:49 am


frm all da misunderstandings caused by the gift entry... i'll like to clarify tt
1)its not frm a guy
2)im not lesbian
3)ppl in gurl's discipleship wld know tt the gift was a way of showing our love to one another...

haha... so tt cleared up.... ul today was simple, yet.. full of fun, laughter, joy, and.. welll.. its very diff frm the 30 over sized uls im been used to... 11 of us came... and well.. its cool... hearing eelin speak again... josh doing worship... and to see the willingness tt was portrayed thru the new comers, to open up easily... to take on responsibility so fast... its a cool start.. and im glad to hear tt ppl who were once quite hard to get in the past haf decided to come to this.. and stick to it for a while... which is good... at least we know tt the next time round... we'll still see them apart frm juz the hi-byes in church...

still hard to chat wif da 'younger ones'... but hey.. at least there are more sporeans now... and well.... i wanna form closer bonds wif these ppl... soo.. yea.. no matter the circumstances.. something good stil comes out of it... im glad i came... and i hope it will get better... minus the 'mini clicks' we haf...

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 12:47 am

*Wednesday, May 03, 2006*

slept like at like after 3 this morning after a superbly amazing 1 hr worship wif scott and jane at my place ... we juz started at ard 11.. and what was supposed to be Scott 'showing off' his skills at playing as we named songs became a time of worship... such tangible presence of the Holy Spirit allows me to understand why i wanted this homey desire in the past....

tirely walked to sch.. and practically fell asleep at every lecture... finally leaving crim early wif a bad tommy ache...

went to bed... wif Scott calling to find his charger... and then another call frm reception telling me tt i had a delivery to collect... grumbling.. but thought it was my John Bevere package... i headed down... to find... a long rectangular box ( which obviously too small at the width to fit any of the books i ordered. obviously i told them they had gotten the wrong package... but they were like... yea.. its you... its ur name.. ur appartment... and it had 'Roses Only' stuck to it...

they thot i had a secret admirer... and Shauna was wif me... thinking who was crazy enuff to sent me roses... haha... the 3 recepionists were more excited than me frm the constant 'open it open it plssssssss' and well yea.. i did coz it smelt so nice.... to find... whatever u'll see...

opened the card... and well... yea.. its frm someone... who went thru the trouble of asking ppl whether i was gonna be home at 7( why this time though) and whether i liked flowers... which i obviously did..... haha

so.. to this very very very sweet and romantic person ( whom i was conversing wif da person u asked for info tt ur partner in da future has to be this wonderful as well).....

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.... meeting you last yr is a blessing and will still be... things u thot u cldnt do.. well.. i think.. u did a wonderful one this time round... thank you for all your cares and concerns... and seriously.... there is nothing to fear.... God is there helping you break any barriers tt u may set for urself unintentionally... and... yea... i believe tt one day u'll walk out of it without realising it.... which i think... a time like this may be it....

thank you soooo much.. for being a wonderful friend, blessing to not only me... but to a whole heap of others, who were welcomed by your warmth, friendliness and generousity.... THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN!!!!!!!

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 12:33 am


da long long box.... all uploaded for ya.... thanks once again dear.... Posted by Picasa

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envelope to me.... Posted by Picasa

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'roses only'  Posted by Picasa

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da card to moi!!! Posted by Picasa

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pink and white flowers!!!! my fav....  Posted by Picasa

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popuri!!!.. smells good.. rose oil... hahha ah duh Posted by Picasa

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chocolates!!!! Posted by Picasa

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 12:12 am

*Tuesday, May 02, 2006*

da voucher i almost missed.. Thanks heaps!!!! Posted by Picasa

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on a whole.... top view Posted by Picasa

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all in all.... thank you Posted by Picasa

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 10:54 pm

*Monday, May 01, 2006*

know i shld be doing the last part of my assigns but i really feel like blogging.. and congratulating my dear friends who went thru those waters last night...

an honour it is to watch all 3 of you go down.. and come up.. new, refreshed and i believe.. ready and prepared for more of His blessing to shower down....

To Billy.... man.. im proud of ya... to see my si ge get changed... and to see his family there to support him... such a heart warming scene... def glad tt u didnt ditch us all to go overseas... but man.. do i believe tt He has so much installed for ya.... well done bro!!!!!

To Steph... from the time i got to know you.. till now... i believed tt God has placed ya in Melb for specific reasons... one of them being... changing ya for the better... some attitudes... some mentalities.. have to be changed.. and i believe tt He'll turn ya into tt beautiful woman you are created to be... hold on to Him dearest and really expect a greater year ahead...

To Sanne.... my dear Sanney Khoo... read ur blog... and was like..... !!!!!! yea.. lost of words... thank you.. for this honour... and its been a pleasure... thank God its you who's here with me... though i wish more of our friends were here as well.. (i know the top 2 others i wld like over)... but i know tt He's placed u right here with me for a specific reason.... i've def seen ya grow... frm tt time in GB... to the time i had tt chat wif u on msn.. when everyone else was blocked but me.... i remember crying to my mum tt night... and suddenly believing tt i wa created for some use b4 i left for Melb... to see you get 'high' in church.. finally joining ushering... getting involved with ul and planet uni... b4 heading to ur call with kids... seeing you grow.. is like revelation for me... and wow.. have we gone thru soooo much here.... Thank you for being no other place... and honey.. though i know tt there are times... when we dun spend enuff time together.... but... i do believe tt when we had those one on one hangouts ( remember chili padi) and we'll def haf more in the near future... it was the best time of my life.... though family was not present... it occurred to me tt ur family joining ya in Heaven is.... what an honour once again... congrats.. and well done gurl!!!!! so proud to see ya take tt big step... and confirm tt wonderful decision of urs!!!!

love ya all heaps and smucks!!!!!

ling long picked a waterdrop @ 10:08 am